Looking for the perfect backdrop for a big birthday bash, a girls’ getaway, or a couples’ retreat?
Sonoma and Napa offer more than just world-class wine. They serve up scenery, experiences, and off-the-wall surprises you wouldn’t expect from “just a wine trip.”
Best Time to Go
The sweet spot? Late August through October (harvest season). Think golden light, grape-stomping festivals, and vineyards so photogenic.. it is mind-blowing.
Want fewer crowds and better hotel deals? March through May is your go-to. Spring brings blooming mustard flowers in the vineyards and that crisp air that makes you want to drink rosé at noon—and not feel judged.
Top 10 Wineries for Groups & Special Celebrations
Here are wineries that roll out the red carpet for groups—most offer private tastings, caves, gardens, and of course food pairings.
- Castello di Amorosa (Calistoga) – A literal Tuscan castle with dungeon tours. Because your birthday deserves a moat.
- Domaine Carneros (Napa) – Sparkling wine, sweeping views, and a patio that was made for toasting your inner fabulousness.
- Ram’s Gate Winery (Sonoma) – Modern, sleek, and ideal for that effortlessly chic group photo.
- Stag’s Leap Wine Cellars (Napa) – Legendary Napa Cabernet and private group tastings in style.
- Buena Vista Winery (Sonoma) – California’s oldest premium winery with eccentric historical tours.
- Scribe Winery (Sonoma) – Hipster paradise. Think minimalism, hammocks, and killer skin-contact wines.
- Chateau Montelena (Calistoga) – The one that beat the French in the 1976 Judgment of Paris. Historic and dramatic. Phenomenal sparkling wine.
- Sterling Vineyards (Calistoga) – Take an aerial tram to your wine.
- Hall Wines (St. Helena) – Bold wines and giant bunny sculptures. Quirky and classy.
- Artesa Vineyards & Winery (Carneros) – Architecture, art, and worldclass Pinot Noir with a view.
Bonus: Book private tastings or group events in advance. These aren’t walk-in kind of spots, especially for groups.
Where to Stay: Hotels Worth the Splurge (or the Points)
- Solage, Auberge Resorts (Calistoga) – Chic bungalows, Michelin-starred food, and access to My FAVORATE their famous mud bar.
- The Lodge at Sonoma (Sonoma) – Marriott Autograph property with spa vibes and wine country charm.
- Carneros Resort and Spa (Napa) – Private cottages, fire pits, and outdoor showers that might just change your life- it did mine!
- Indian Springs Resort (Calistoga) – Historic, casual luxury with a massive mineral pool and on-site mud baths.
What If Someone Doesn’t Drink?
Wine Country is still their oyster. Here’s what’s on the menu:
- Spa days galore – Think mud baths in Calistoga, mineral pools, facials with crushed grapes (yes, really).
- Hot air balloon rides – Floating over vineyards at sunrise is a total mic-drop experience.
- Olive oil tastings & food pairings – Try The Olive Press or Round Pond Estate’s olive mill.
- Hiking & biking – Sonoma Overlook Trail, Napa River Trail, or bike from vineyard to vineyard like you’re in a wine-fueled rom-com.
- Shopping – Cute boutiques in Healdsburg, Oxbow Market in Napa, or St. Helena’s adorable downtown.
- Art & Architecture – Hess Collection, di Rosa Center for Contemporary Art, and that giant bunny at Hall Wines.
Weird & Wonderful Surprises
Because you’re not basic—and neither is Wine Country:
- Petrified Forest (Calistoga) – Ancient redwoods turned to stone? Weird flex, but cool.
- Safari West (Santa Rosa) – Yes, there’s a full-on African safari experience in Sonoma. Giraffes, zebras, and all.
- Napa Valley Museum (Yountville) – Quirky local history and rotating exhibits.
- The Tank Garage Winery (Calistoga) – It’s a gas station. That serves wine. With pinball machines.
Bottom Line: Whether your crew wants to sip, soak, balloon, or just bask in wine country glam, Sonoma and Napa are the perfect playground for group getaways—and if you’re planning something big, reach out for curated group experiences tailored to your vibe.